Not Working

Do people really think that not talking to me is better than sharing good things with me? Do they really think I don't know that the world keeps going round and round even when my babies don't come home? And if they do, and they really are that careful of my feelings, why have they not been in contact?

I just hope that anyone unfortunate enough to know someone in any kind of difficult circumstances doesn't take it upon themselves to filter all the contact out of their lives in case they get upset. We're big girls. We have to be. By all means be tactful and be kind, people, but keep talking to us. It hurts more to have this kind of poor contact.

They know who they are; or if they don't, maybe this message would never get through anyway.

It doesn't do you justice, darling. Your loss is so much more important than they reflect.